I have that horses ass phone-number. I'm not showing up on his doorstep, he'd just try to invite me to dinner, but I am seriously considering calling in nice 1 hour gaps every night.... What an utter arse. >:O

if you have his phone number, you can get his other contact info, and if you can get that, then i'd be calling him into the police for sexual harrassment.

UGH.

Asshole. That's all I can say. I hope you smack him down well.

I'm trying but it doesn't seem to be working. :/

Oh, and I DID get your postcard - very sorry for not telling you sooner. Thank you!!! I DID appreciate it, even if my lack of mention suggested otherwise.

Oh my GOD! I've been watching your ordeal unfold with growing horror....but that is just the LIMIT! Are you considering lying to get him off your back? I could understand such an urge but at the same time you shouldn't have to lie for this motherfucker to get a clue. I looked at his site and he has TONS of links to a variety of women (some who I imagine are also unaware they're being listed, so why is he being so indignant about removing you? Egads. Good luck sorting this out, dear!

I meant lying about your weight to get him off your back, for the record. From the looks of his chart *eyeballs*, he's not particularly interested in women in the 350 lb and under range....though these are estimated weights that he guesses at, right? *fumes on your behalf*

I just don't get it. I don't understand how someone can be so disgusting as to run a site like that, let alone put people's names up on it who he doesn't even know - it's ridiculous. Morri.. if you went further with this, perhaps with legal action.. I can tell there would be a lot of people 100% behind you with it.

Fuck that man sideways, back wards, and upside down. I even hope he gets raped by the kitchen sink.

Kazzii :~*X*~:

Past logical thought or sensible suggestions here - all I have left is anger.

I'd really look into the .htaccess thing, though. One thing you can try without causing any hassle for your friend or anyone else at byz.org would be to create a little file called .htaccess in the same directory as your index.html file consisting of the following:

order_referer deny_referer,allow_referer
allow_referer from all
deny_referer from .geocities.com

That might be enough to stop his link to your site working. (And a few other links to your site from friends who have their sites at Geocities, too, unfortunately.) I don't believe there's a possible downside to it and there is a possible upside, so it's worth a go.

Okay, if you can explain this a little more, I can probably do it myself. I do all my own web pages and have FTP access and all that. I'm on YM if you have a couple of minutes to explain.

This is simply horrific.

Unfortunately, the legality issues here are hairy and confusing, in that they deal with the world of defamation and harassment, which are themselves hairy and confusing. That said, Yahoo/Geocities is famous for suspending users easily (it's not like this guy is paying for the privilege of hosting with them), so if you haven't already, look at the Geocities ToS, find the passage about harassment/defamation, and poke at abuse@geocities.com with it until they kill his account.

Sweet lord and fucking baby jesus!

I've been reading through the posts all morning and that's about all I can get out. I cannot find words for the hatred.

I'd go with Chris's idea if you can. Otherwise we're gonna need to be looking up ways to order a ass whipping delivered to Germany. I'm not even kidding.

OK, here's a thought. He has a wife, Tatjana. Perhaps she could be contacted and she could talk some sense into him. At the worst case, she might possibly even agree about his views about fattening and feeding, but it's much more likely that she'll see that he's causing you upset and she might be able to convince him to stop. Possibly best not to suggest it's you who's being upset here, but you're not the only one who's upset about it (see the lady who contacted you in the first place; she may know others who are upset about him too) so I doubt that there would be flak coming back personally at you as a consequence.

I don't want to suggest any methods which might be considered bad behaviour, simply because it's always and inherently a bad idea, but you know I'm certainly thinking them...

It's just... beyond my comprehension, how some people can have such a lack of respect for others.

I hope that something happens soon to resolve this... you don't deserve this kind of treatment and frustration, especially not from a scumbag like him!

I don't even think I have any words left. That is just... so deeply disgusting. I sincerely hope for you that this will get resolved soon.

O.O

That email from him is like stabbing someone in the back and then giving the knife a gentle pat.

Right now, simply telling him a fictional weight might get you off his list. But that would be no guarantee that he wouldn't put you back on it later, it wouldn't teach him a lesson, and it wouldn't help anyone else who he's lied about. And I don't expect it would give you a sense of closure either.

Chris seems to be coming up with some good suggestions; I guess the best thing to do right now would be to wait for Geocities' response.

Oh, and by suggesting that because you're losing weight you might fall of his list just proves that when he said that he wasn't implying you were a feedee, that was a complete lie.

Would contacting some of the other women he lists be an option? They seem to all have Yahoo IDs or AIM IDs listed - I didn't look too deeply into it, I was too angry.

Behind you a hundred percent, love.

My angry letter to Geocities has been sent, with all the nasty-governmental-business-proof-type rhetoric I was able muster.

*Now commences spitting nails on your behalf*

...

people like this are the scourge of humanity. the scourge.

*hugs* i really think you should find as much information as you can on this guy and fuck geocities, report him to the police.