2) If you are talking about NA on your LJ, you may find me defriending you. It's nothing personal - the wound is simply too fresh. You have the choice of friends-filtering and leaving me out, or something like that, but I won't ask anyone to do it. I know it's my issue, and if you think I'm being too melodramatic because it's painful - well, piss off.
EDITED TO ADD: Link to Alex's post, thanks to hautemonde. >:D