Vicki (hermorrine) wrote,
Vicki
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A poll, because I've been thinking about it.

I have never stayed friends with an ex. With one ex there was really no point as we weren't friends to begin with, so there was nothing to continue. With another we'd just hurt each other so much and argued so much and then completely grew apart that it just didn't work, although we tried for a little while. But with my latest ex, it's at least within the realm of possibility. Obviously this is a mutual thing and I don't know yet how zorac feels about the idea now, so who knows if it will ever come to pass. But any and all responses are welcome.

Poll #475909 Being friends with your ex poll

Are you still friends with a former girlfriend/boyfriend or spouse?

Yes
28(80.0%)
No
7(20.0%)

If yes, how long after the breakup did the two of you begin talking/hanging out again?

Immediately afterwards
8(28.6%)
3 months afterwards
5(17.9%)
6 months afterwards
3(10.7%)
9 months afterwards
2(7.1%)
1 year afterwards
3(10.7%)
More than a year afterwards
4(14.3%)
Other (will comment)
3(10.7%)

Who ended the relationship?

I did
12(38.7%)
They did
11(35.5%)
It truly was mutual
8(25.8%)

Do you think which of you ended it makes a difference?

Yes
15(46.9%)
No
10(31.2%)
Not sure/Will comment
7(21.9%)

Did you have to meet someone new before you were ready to be friends with your ex?

Yes
3(9.4%)
No
22(68.8%)
I met someone but I don't think it made any difference
7(21.9%)

How did you know you were ready to be friends again?



Also, tonight's Numb3rs was excellent.
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